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My daughter has a neighbor friend that she plays with now and then. I cringe whenever the girl comes over because she has no indoor voice. She yells everything – conversations, wants, needs, hellos, good-byes – everything. While she is here, I am guaranteed to have to (gently) admonish her to please use her indoor voice. “BUT MY MOM SAYS I HAVE A BEAUTIFUL VOICE! I WAS JUST BORN LOUD!” Sheesh. Besides the obvious parenting issues (and it would take several blog posts just to cover that topic), there is the concept of appropriate voices in appropriate situations. And don’tcha know this translates into a good topic about writing.
One of the most popular posts from when I first started blogging was about finding your writer’s voice. It made a lot of sense back then and it makes a lot of sense now. These last few years have taught me a lot about using my indoor voice. For writers, using your indoor voice means using a writing voice that is appropriate for the kind of writing you’re doing.
Generally, my writing voice is conversational, informal. If you read this blog at all, you know what I mean. I translate the voice in my head into words on the screen so you’ll find things like “sheesh” and “dont’cha” and other things that look like what they sound like in my head. Unfortunately, this also means that sometimes grammar takes a back seat. I write incomplete sentences. And sometimes I’ll start a sentence with “And.” In my mind that’s all okay because that’s how it sounds in my mind. It’s my blog dang it and if my voice violates a rule or two then so be it.
With that said, I have learned when to formalize my voice. Essentially, I’ve learned when to use my indoor voice. A valuable lesson in this went something like this: The owner of a blog I write for thought it would be a good idea to write some articles for one of her client’s blogs. This blog is fairly well known and I jumped at the chance. Well, the stuff I submitted was written in my usual style. I didn’t spend nearly enough time looking at the client’s blog to get a sense of the style. Needless to say, I got word that she had to re-write all of my articles before the client would accept them. A bit embarrassed, I let her know – and she agreed – that maybe my writing style wasn’t the best fit in this instance. If I had to do it all over again, I would have spent a lot more time researching the site and I would have put more effort into figuring out my indoor voice.
These days, I pay a lot of attention to who I’m writing for. When I’m on a freelance writing site, I take a good look at the directions for the article to get a sense for what the client is like. If the directions are stuffy and formal, then usually the style they are looking for is the same. So far that strategy has worked pretty well.
The importance of this for freelance writers cannot be understated. If you only have one voice, your freelance writing career is going to be a tough one.
How many voices do you have?

It’s important that any relatively new freelance writers not interpret this post as a cynical attempt to get them fleeing into the hills. This review of 
My very first post on this blog was about
It’s kind of funny how sometimes the Universe conspires to push you in a direction that you’ve been wanting to go but didn’t know how to do it. In 2011, this didn’t happen. Within 48 hours of 2012 coming along, it did.







